Monday, November 15, 2010
Black Males/ mentoring
The average young African American boy does not have a mentor/ someone that they can look at as a model. Most Black households lack role models due single parent homes (consisting of only their mother), absent of a father figure. After reading my book I learned that young boys are much better off when compared to someone who father is present and playing an active role in their Childs life. Most boys do not have a mentor or a father figure in their life which can have a negative effect while growing up. My father played a huge roll in my childhood and I tend to find myself following in his footsteps, even if it’s something little such as knowing how to cut the grass or showing respect.
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Hi Percy,
ReplyDeleteI liked Gabe's suggestion in class that for the next group of mentors, there be a segment on understanding other groups and cultures. Raising awareness of the history, issues, oppression and what is effective and what isn't would help so much in understanding students we work with that may come from a different background. In order to be effective, I would appreciate understanding more and hearing the stories. I really like what you have shared in your post; and your book sounds great! What a blessing to your child and others around you that you are modeling after your Dad and want to make a difference in others' lives. I think sometimes Dads' importance is downplayed in our society when Dads' are hugely important to kids. If for whatever reason a Dad isn't able to be around, more mentoring programs that connect adult males to kids with understanding and awareness of the kids' and family stories I think would be amazing. Thank you for your heart and what you do! Inspirational, if only all would want to make a difference in young people's lives, what a different world there would be for young people. Thank you for your post! Have an awesome day! Christina
Yes, I also agree that adding this element into the class allows mentors to understand other groups and cultures. Being the first person in my family to attend a University adds a lot of pressure and weight on my shoulders. I feel as if im setting an example for my younger cousins, sisters, my son, and even the adults. My uncles and aunties all come to me for little things or advice even though im younger than them.
ReplyDeleteGood points here Percy. It really does seem to be about how the little things add up.
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